Let’s get this out of the way — I love Alden Parker. When he joined NCIS in Season 19, he brought a whole new energy that this show desperately needed.
Don’t get me wrong, Gibbs was a legend. But after nearly two decades of his intense, no-nonsense leadership, it was time for a change.
Parker? He’s got a completely different vibe, and it’s been a total game-changer.
A Leader All His Own
Parker isn’t trying to be another Leroy Jethro Gibbs, and that’s exactly why he works.
Where Gibbs led with quiet authority and an unshakable confidence in his team’s abilities, Parker is more laid-back and approachable.
He has a more collaborative style, openly encouraging his agents and bringing a lighter energy to the team.
Plus, his sense of humor brings something fresh to the show. Parker makes real, laugh-out-loud jokes, something we rarely got with Gibbs.
While both Gibbs and Parker have their hobbies (because apparently, that’s an NCIS leader requirement), Parker’s birdwatching hobby was a surprising twist.
Add to that his love of pastries, and he becomes even more relatable and refreshing.
Parker also brings a lighter, more approachable vibe to NCIS that the show didn’t have before. He’s layered with mysteries we haven’t fully uncovered yet — like, who exactly is Lily?
And unlike Gibbs, who took years to open up romantically, Parker’s already shown he’s open to love.
His chemistry with Clara in NCIS Season 21 Episode 8 was so sweet and unexpected, and I was hooked immediately. They’re a great match, and I’m rooting for them.
The only other person I could see him vibing with is Jess, but she’s taken — and we definitely don’t need that drama.
Still, Jess and Parker would be a fantastic match because they both have that fearless, spunky style. It won’t happen, but hey — a girl can dream, right?
And for the record, I love Jess and Jimmy together, even if they’re not right now — for the time being. So, don’t get too crazy about my dream scenario.
The Team Has Never Been More Relaxed
I’ve noticed that the team seems way more relaxed with Parker in charge. Under Gibbs, there was always this underlying tension — like everyone was walking on eggshells.
With Parker, it’s a completely different atmosphere. McGee is more confident, Torres is a little less broody, and Knight? She’s absolutely thriving.
Her fun, bold personality meshes perfectly with Parker’s, so here’s hoping she’ll be back with the team soon.
Parker’s collaborative leadership style gives the team room to grow, and it shows. Instead of just following orders, they’re really working together, and that makes the dynamic feel fresh.
Parker’s Humor Is the Show’s Secret Weapon
And can we talk about the humor? Parker brings a lightness to the show that we never really got with Gibbs.
He’s funny without trying too hard, and his quirky personality adds a fun layer to the team dynamic.
It’s not all jokes, of course — the stakes are still high — but Parker knows how to break the tension in a way that makes the show more enjoyable.
Remember on NCIS Season 21 Episode 6: “Strange Invaders” when he teased McGee and Knight with, “Don’t get beamed up”? That’s classic Parker.
It’s like the team can finally breathe, and I’m here for it.
For those who still miss Gibbs, I get it. He was an icon. And if you want to relive those days, you’ve got NCIS: Origins to dive into his backstory.
But for me? I’m sticking with Alden Parker and NCIS. He’s exactly what the show needed to stay fresh, and I’m loving every minute of it.